‘As spiritual beings, humans gravitate towards Oneness, and when this state is experienced by lovers, their existence as distinct individuals is ideally suspended along with their individual needs. In its deepest and highest dimensions, erotic love cannot be about the mutual satisfaction of two individuals’ needs because, by its very nature, it implies that the individual longs to be transcended.’

An excerpt from my article ‘The Tragedy of Togetherness’ and something I can’t emphasise enough. If you still feel like love is a deal, like you’re giving and taking, you haven’t hit the sweet spot yet. 😉

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