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Eeeek, I just published a brand new blog website along with my very first article! 😱 The blog is about erotic love as a path to transcendence and Oneness. I’m very excited and also very nervous about it, so would love to get some feedback from you guys before I post about it on Instagram. There’s only that one article so far, and it’s a fairly short read, maybe you can find the time. 🙏 Feel free to comment on anything: content, flow, the legibility of the font, the look of the website, etc., and feel free to be critical! I’d be thrilled to hear your opinions!
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People often asked me about my spiritual practice. I don’t tell everyone, as they won’t understand.
For me, it was loving a girl in my head and heart. I did it since childhood. My mind becomes empty when I think of her presence, and a lot of magic happens in an quiet mind.
The problem is that I found no one in the real world. i have started to accept it.
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Oooh, I’d love to talk to you about that! 🙂 But bear with me, I’ve got a few busy days ahead. Will message you asap! Thank you so much for taking the time to read. 🙏
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I am also going to get busy. It takes a different kind of energy and mental mode to talk about these things.
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But, please stay in touch. I have messaged you in insta.
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Sorry for slow response! I’d say you’re not missing out on love at all, only on companionship. Since you kindly took the time to read my blog article, you already know that I’m personally of the opinion that companionship tends to obscure and hinder true Love (with a capital L). Twoness is not Oneness.
Even if the girl has no interest in you at the periphery, as a true Lover – stripped of your personal needs and wants, that is – you’re at the very Core of her existence and there’s nothing she can do about it. Her existence is the result of your Love, which is the ONE Love, and that’s what you can fully rejoice in, right? That said, I wonder: Did she ever actively reject you? Or are you not talking about a particular girl, just ‘the girl’ in more general terms?
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Fantastic article albeit not very hopeful. The article hits on a theme that Ram Dass often spoke on: Yoga of relationship. It appears to have been a challenge back then when folks were trying to live with less distortions of self/attachment/needs, and way less media. I believe that the experience of the two becoming one where individual identity is lost and the presence of the creator is found, aka “White Tantra” is very much possible, but the two selves must be balanced. So the experience is sought after in two unified open hearts not two separate egos.
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Hi MountainAir! Thanks so much for your insightful comment! It reminded me that I have to get back to writing. I need to deliver the hope in further articles, don’t I? 🙂 Yes, Oneness can look unattainable considering the status quo of typical 21st century lives and relationships. But again and again my non-partner and I experience it as the Self-epiphany of what we like to call the ‘zeroth Entity’, a singular Being-existence BEFORE twoness. All we have to do, really, is to love, because the true Lover is never the individual, the true Lover must eventually recognises himself as the Creator. In my opinion that’s why we have reason to be extremely hopeful: When the hearts are open, like you say, the presence of the Creator simply can’t be missed (can’t miss itself)!
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I read the article. Yes, the dilemma is so troubling.